It has been so encouraging to get such positive feedback. Thank you for taking the time. Here are just some of the messages I have received through the website’s contact form / emails
“I thought that ‘I’m not dead yet’ was one of the most powerful, moving and beautifully judged documentaries I have ever seen. The way that the characters, their histories and attitudes evolved was more compelling than any fictional work and the steady build of tension eerier than any psychological horror film. An incredible film. Thank you.”
“What an intellectual eye. You gave an insight right inside a very complex situation…. You showed very different elements of the human condition and how beneath the surface of all people lies a balance of light and dark, and the varying ways in which we deal with this. Your film was therapy… for your family and for your viewers”.
” I was deeply moved by the film. I related to both sisters, as I have been affected by the same issue. I sincerely hope both sisters can come to some sort of relationship like me and my sister. It took years but I am so glad we have a relationship now.
Ruth is an amazing person, I hope both sisters realise how it did affect her, but she did not know how to cope.
The film was beautifully put together. The family footage was so moving when you realise the issues which have affected this family.
Once again thank you for this amazing film and I hope you all the success for your future and wish all your family well”.
“i thought it gave a great view from all sides and also space for their emotions to get on film. Reviting stuff…The editing with the old footage was fantastic. Ruth, what a character. What a life”.
“I stumbled across the film last evening and was glued to it. I felt I was being given access to a very complex and ‘private’ story and I admire the bravery of those involved in its making. Human beings are complex creatures and the film demonstrated so many facets of human character. In short, I thought it was quite brilliant!”
“Congratulations on this film. Beautifully put together, thought provoking - the best program I’ve seen this year. I am a counsellor for young people, occasionally working with abuse - I felt that this film may help others to understand a little more”.
“I just wanted to say that I was really moved by the documentary. It’s not something that I do - feedback. But, I felt that it was such a personal story and that you and your family were brave enough to share it, that it deserved recognition. So, thank you”.
“a congratulatory message to the director (and by association the production team), because, for me, this work compared most favourably with the Maysles Bros. GRAY GARDENS – praise indeed”.
“Like many people I just happened across this when it was broadcast. It was so unexpectedly enlightening, moving and so totally engaging. In the midst of almost everything else on telly at the moment this stood out as proper quality reality TV. Unforgettable. I tried to explain all this to my girlfriend, but realised she just has to see it and let it speak for itself. So - please let me know when the dvd is released. Good luck with all future projects”.